She is not interested in going to counceling. We tried that early on and it did not do to much for us. We talk enough to know what the issues are...she has some resentment issues and other demons she needs to work out on her own.
This is a very confusing time. I want to give her the space she needs but in doing so that means more time away from the kids. Last night I went to go check on the kids in bed out of habit and about lost it when I realized they were not there.
She came by this morning to drop off the dog and she asked me how I was doing. I told her I had a rough night becuase of the kids and what we are doing to them is wrong. She did not have anything to meaningful to say.
She is still wearing her wedding ring, which I find odd, but really have no idea what that means, if anything.
