PS - Also, we used to go on fairly expensive vacations (my idea). We haven't been on vacation since THE BOMB. In an attempt to show him we don't "need" to do things that way anymore, I did book the whitewater raft trip (in Northern WI) for all of us, as a present for H's birthday. It's pretty low key (financially), and I kept it to a four day event. Whitewater rafting, rock climbing, high ropes course, etc... Our family is fairly high adventure. It should be fun, and... we're staying in a cabin! EEEEK!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.