Puppy Dog Tails, Gucci Loafer, Sandi2 - if you have time please read my post from yesterday as well as today. Could use some more of your wise counsel.
Last weekend when I was at the lake I finally bought something for myself without feeling guilty. My H actually looked at the credit card bill and gave me trouble about it last night. He's the one that's always said I should be able to buy something if I want. I told him that and he said I know but we have enough debt right now etc.
He also asked me yesterday to see what finance rates are right now to see if we could refinance the house at a lower rate.
So of course now I'm thinking he's trying to find a way to get money in the budget so he can move out. It's financially impossible right now.
How do I keep myself from analyzing everything? Which of course was one of his complaints on his list he went over with me Sunday night.
I guess I really don't see how this can possibly how our marriage can be repaired if I'm the only one going to counseling.
