H called and SAID "I am angry at myself because I couldnt wake up again today and missed spending the morning with the kids...". He is really struggling. I could tell from his voice. I listened and said nothing. I dont want to "save him" by offering a live saver such as "it's ok, dont worry, etc etc". He needs to worry, he needs to hit bottom to finally act on the things that mess up his and our (kid's) lives. K
