Limbo sucks. Its nice to have a direction. You have every right to move on with your life. If W changes her tune in the next few months or even after D is final then you can revisit if YOU want. She can't say you didn't try.

So what is your plan?

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!