Hi KAW..it's so great to see the support that you so freely give to all of us..you know how I have dreaded hearing from my h..well if you have a chance check my thread out...but I can say in my case it has helped imensly...how long are we willing to not know what the other wants or feels...I know CAW seems to be unsure what she needs and wants from one day to the next......maybe it's time for you to ask.I know ..I know..it is not that easy...but because of the support and knowledge we have learned here..we know how we have to approach these things without accusing and pointing fingers.