OK, let me ask this, then: Am I trying, during this time, to try and get her interested in me again? Or, do I just go on barely talking to her? I am doing my own thing more now, going to the gym, etc. But when we are together, should I talk as if nothing is wrong, or totally disengage from her? I am confused by this notion. Maybe the books will spell it out for me.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.