OK, let me ask this, then:
Am I trying, during this time, to try and get her interested in me again? Or, do I just go on barely talking to her? I am doing my own thing more now, going to the gym, etc. But when we are together, should I talk as if nothing is wrong, or totally disengage from her? I am confused by this notion. Maybe the books will spell it out for me.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.