In your conversations I don't hear anything from her regarding the M. She isn't hinting at what she would want, it sounds more like she is finding ways to be friendly and have a working relationship for your kids.
You are spot on she has no desire to be M but isn't pushing the D...We/I will be friendly because of the kids but that will be all for at least a little while.
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Sounds like you are getting to the restless point. Either do something or move on.
I am beyond restless I will do whatever I can to move the process forward as fast as possible, there is no point in dragging it out for the next five months. I'm not hurt or angry or pi$$ed off, I'm just relieved.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."