I guess not every sponsor/A is a fit. See what happens with the next one. I get both sides of the arguement but at this stage I would try and do what the sponsor wanted at least until the one year mark was attained. See what the new sponsor reccommends.

Kass you have come so far in the time you have been here. Your M has come so far too. I am so happy for you!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!