I can not believe what I am finding out about my W in the mediation. I am so angry and frustrated, it's hard to comprehend. She has morphed into just a money grubbing person that I do not know.
I am looking at essentially financial devastation for myself as this D progresses, we really have 0 value in assets because of the things we have done with the money I inherited, and where we are currently. From a D perspective, they say that what it really means is just a piece of paper that says we are D, and I start paying 500 per week in child support.
I also found out that she has 50k in Inheritance coming in June, she used her credit card to fund breast enhancement surgery, plans on buying a car when that check comes in, and placing the rest in retirement funds for herself. The whole time at the meeting she is claiming she can't afford the house, nor will be able to afford moving out.
Are you effin kidding me????
I put every cent of my inheritance from my grandparents into our finances, house, family, etc, and she plans on hoarding hers for herself, and wants her portion of our Assets. At this point it may be better that I essentially have effective 0 assets.
I am livid. I am calling my L.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
