Thanks for the input Coach I really do appreciate it. Before reading your post I tried that whole communication thing, didn't go very well at all...I tried to talk with her about the whole kids asking me stay ect and she basically told me it was my responsibility to figure out...bad part is it turned into an hour long talk/fight about the D...Sure I could have ended it and maybe should have but I didn't. Bottom line I'm ready to get the D over with, she hasn't done a thing, said she hasn't had time to work on anything and blamed me for not helping. Told me she may just wait and not do anything and we can just go to court...

After thing long and hard about it last night I'm going to do what I can to get this D done as soon as possible. In doing that I call her this morning asking her for some financial info, I'm being as nice as nice could be...She starts yelling at me about why I would need this or that...I reply you said you wanted my help and I'm trying to give it I need just need some info on where to start...She starts more yelling and I just say I see your angry I'm going to go, she says I'm not done and to that I reply, I am bye, and hang up...

Bottom line after two years of S I'm ready for this M to be over so I can move on...


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."