Bridge, Where in what I asked you did I ever suggest forcing myself on anyone or "techniquing". I've never even suggested arguing with her... Your wrath is misplaced.
Yeah, I'm going to have to rise to the defense of my esteemed colleague AlexEN here -- when I read those posts in order I got those ah-ooga eyes from the Tex Avery cartoons. The response clearly did not follow from the query. No active listening? *Ahem.