I have to say I think Kalni makes a lot of sense. You guys need to get used to each other again for a while and be ok in each others company and then address things that need to be addressed. That is how I would approach it (if I ever get the chance!).
I don't see a problem with you guys living together so long as it is his suggestion. He needs to come to that decision. JMO - what do I know!
