"I sit there and try to listen attentively while she (still not talking openly) cries emotionally."
It's hard to sit thru' this without getting upset yourself so you are doing great in this regard. Esp. if she unfairly blames you for it all and then sheds the tears on top of that - is this the case? And its very difficult to get the WAW beyond this - its like a stuck record - there seems to be anger and guilt buried in there but I was never sure what to make of the emotions. Hopefully Greek and Coach can help you here if they experienced this same dynamic. But ultimately I hope she has good intent deep down - of really wanting the M.
