1853dave,

You mentioned that your W's inaction was a result of ambivalence. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? What are you doing in terms of DB?

My W is the same way. She complained about wanting a D, living on her own, etc. yet she hasn't done anything to move towards a D.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER