I think the thing that seems so weird with your W is how she openly talks about her fantasy with this OM with you and her BIL and friends. It amazes me that she is not embarrassed by having this attraction when she is a M woman. She acts as if it is nothing to be ashamed of. Why do you think that is? Has she been like that regarding other things in life?
She was mostly this way in March and only then confided in her closest friends and family members. I agree, the outward lack of shame even with her closest confidants is disturbing, she has never acted this way before. I kind of wonder if the lack of inhabition is some expression of her feeling "liberated" in her mind from me who has "oppressed" her all these years.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
