Renee, I have to ask you this question. Why do you insist on talking to your XH? You take any opportunity to talk to him when you know darn good and well that he will not talk to you nor take your side no matter what it is. Its like you are obsessed with trying to get this man to talk to you. Renee, you are only making it worse.
BH I dont insist on talking to him. I know it looks like I do but I dont. I have tried my hardest to stay away from him and not communicate with him. Yes I did grab son's phone. He was taking everything to the extreme, and really making things worse. He was wanting his dad to take his side. I couldnt take it anymore and I tried to demand that my xh stand up and be a man and do what he did when he was home. "Demand son to respect his mother". Didnt work did it. Lesson learned again. BH I am "obsessed" with trying to get along with everybody involved. I am still trying to adapt to a man I loved for 20 years and who I know loved me back, now almost hating me. The hard thing to do.
