Sunshine, I said what I said because you still expect "help" from you ex to "raise" your son. It's over. He's an adult and it is no longer you h's job to help you.
Kimmie I dont expect my xh to help me RAISE my son, my son is already "raised", BUT yes I guess I did expect him "being a dad", to tell son to NOT disrespect his mother. As Sandi said though, why I thought my xh would tell son this is beyond me. I guess I thought by staying away from xh for 3 months or so would lesson his anger toward me. I was wrong! Kimmie I am just trying so hard for everybody to get along. It saddens me. I guess I am trying to hard and expecting too much.