Mindblank #4 - Can I borrow some meds?

[mindfull]

Coach:
I like your suggestion regarding communication of what makes me feel rejected and what makes me happy. In fact, I have an idea of how to present it. We have had a few instances where we have been "out" and something triggers tears in me. H does not deal well w/tears, and then makes things worse with his approach to trying to figure out what caused the tears. (Word choices). So, this could be a good exercise in understanding how the tears started, and what helped/hurt once they did.

I think I would write this down, and ask to read something to him. (I think I'd less inclined to cry if I read it.).

Question... This is dangerously close to R talk, and H is NOT interested in any R discussions. Maybe just send in an email? There's more of a chance of misunderstanding if I sent in an email, though.

Thank you for your input. I was looking for an acceptable bridge between his requirements and my own needs. This may be it.