W came by this evening to drop off the kids. I was waiting for her outside, rather than have her come in the house. Just sitting and playing guitar on the front porch though, nice and casual. The kids came running up to see me which was nice. W wanted to tell me that her job prospects are not looking good. Salary negotiations are not leaning at all where she was hoping. I listened, but I wasn't really sympathetic. What am I supposed to do? She rejected my love and support. She's still trying to be very friendly in the face of my increasing distance from her.
I do have one thing that's really bothering me, and I'd like the opinion of others here. I am still providing health insurance for my W under my employer's family plan. I'm not entirely sure why, but the thought of giving her that while she's actively involved in a PA with OM makes me sick. Perhaps it's the thought of her getting some infection or disease from OM, and MY insurance would have to pay to treat her. I'm seriously considering telling her I'm dropping her from my insurance. I'd give her one month notice, as I think she's not going to see OM until late August. She will of course throw a little fit and accuse me of being petty, but I'm tired of just taking everything on the chin. I hate all of this, but that in particular really makes me want to vomit. Why shouldn't I do what would make ME feel better? Besides making me feel emotionally better, it would also save me some serious money each month to drop her. What do you all think?
