Good point about the seatbelt.:) I have been playing this whole thing by ear (and prayer) as far as my actions/reactions. So far it has worked out okay. I have been doing DB, GAL, detatching, etc. but have to go with the flow somewhat as well. He left after dinner to go to the gym supposedly and isn't back yet but when he is in these teenage angst moods it is a relief if he isn't here. At least I feel way more detached this evening than I did earlier.