I know, if you don't feel it, you don't feel it! I knew going in she wasn't my "type" whatever that means. She is a very nice person. But physically, I'm just not at all attracted. It was still a really nice meeting. And I learned about a nice place to eat that I didn't know about.

I've been emailing another woman, by her picture I think there may be some attraction. She's asked some really good questions, and I've been answering them honestly, and, as it turns out, correctly. I'm going to meet her for dinner Wednesday. She's the first one I'm meeting that I actually think I will want to meet again. She was initially spooked by my separated status. I explained everything, completely openly, and she decided to learn more about me.

If there's one thing I've learned it's that I'm going to communicate better than I ever did before. There are not going to be surprises. It's the only fair thing for both of us.

BobbiJo, I know where you can come to try out those new golf clubs!