Doing my best, I think

[Bridgestone]

How about 'flirty' talk.. suggestive talk that you did (right?) when dating & in the early years?

I agree with WT... if I'm emotionally connected to my man (healthy or not)... he's getting laid. He's being pursued... flirted with, bantered with, etc. My BoB & I are sooo close these days, he's so plugged into to my needs... but I digress!

Try priming the banter pump (no pun intended)... flirt with her... help her remember how to feel 'sexy' & connected to you.

Try some flirty, dirty talk with a twinkle & a smirk...let her respond (hopefully) and then just walk away...

let her know that is safe to be there (flirting with you) and YOU ARE OK WITH NOT GETTING SEX

she needs reassurance that just because she flirted with you & you don't get laid, that you're not going back to 'old tim'.... baby steps..

patience.. you're doing great.
Peace
Bridge

PS>. happy birthday