don't ever be hesitant to post the negative feelings, as you can see from having just visited my thread there are some of us still dealing with lots of negativity. that is why we are here kaw, to pick you up when your down, and for you to do the same when the roles are reversed
well, you don't need a 2x4 to tell you that snooping is bad, right? you have already punished yourself tenfold i am sure for finding out what you did
there are amazing similarities in our sitches if only for the mental conditions of our spouses. i think the nurturer in each of us refuses to leave someone in their time of need because we feel they seriously DON'T know what they are doing
please take the advice you gave me in my thread. take off the hubby hat and put on the friend hat. if one of your very close friends was suffering with a mental condition how would you be treating them?
there was a very good question posed on the board the other day, and now i can't find where i read it, but the question was "what would you be doing different TODAY if you were divorced"
pretty profound eh?
thank you so much for visiting my thread, you brought tears and actually really helped me focus on some key issues
