You moved 10 hours away. I'd say you are indeed doing a pretty good job of dropping the rope. I think that many of us are living vicariously through you.
I noticed you read Eat, Pray, Love. Remember this on page 264?
Quote:
"Wayan ticked off on her fingers the six elements of her Fail-Proof Broken-Heart Curing Treatment: Vitamin E, get much sleep, drink much water, travel to a place far away from the person you loved, meditate and teach your heart that this is destiny."
I can relate to your anger and hurt and wanting to know "why".
I admire your strength. I bet your H will shed tears. In fact, the presence of an OW in his life just might make your absence all the more real for him.
He needs time and so do you. Stay strong.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
