nothing is for sure Dw, but on some cases separation has been helpful. I think her wanting to have sleep overs is a positive sign, she doesn't want to let you go completly. Would she go counseling? seems like she might, have you suggested that? perhaps then you can get to the bottom of the 2yrs of no intimacy, that has got to hurt any M.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.