Only complication there is when I think of how the kids are going to be affected. Then I get sad, then angry.
The same principle applies.
If you are already D'd (It just hasn't happened yet), then what do your kids need? They need a great, loving, involved Dad who is both emotionally available and at the same time solid and reliable. Someone they can trust and lean on when their whole world is shifting, but who doesn't make their situation worse by demonizing or undercutting their mother. (etc - you get the picture)
So now go be that Dad!
What is it going to take to get to that place for them? That's what you need to do!
(Me, I'm still working on it too. We're all on the same journey together.)
Last edited by Thinker; 06/23/0902:53 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
