You wouldn't know that it has been a YEAR since our divorce! He just keeps shoveling the crap. It stuns me, really.
He is just pissed that I didn't "fall" for his stupid offer to trade the 96 leaky camper for the hot tub he started the affair in (I was SUCH an idiot, and turned the other cheek when he kept it too hot for his own family to use, but then-OW would walk across the street, past his parents' apt, and hope in for an hour or 2 while I was inside with the kids and the dishes). I've never said it to him, but if he insisted that the tub was half his, he was going to get his half - cut down the middle with a demo saw! That, or filled with as much dog crap as I could find.... I mean, come on, talk about rubbing my face in it. I can't believe to what depths of insensitivity he goes to.
And now he wants to get out of other things he agreed to, and I was good enough to not bring it to court and have contempt charges filed!
Are we all really sure that a skillet up the head doesn't bring any sense back into them? I've been tempted over and over again for close to three years, now!
Ugh, just frustrating, and venting.
He hasn't been in the house since about 3 weeks after I tossed his stuff, back in 7/07; his friend helped him clean out the rest of his things. I've made so many improvements, finished so many jobs that he half-a$$ed started....I almost welcome him to come in one last time and see that, hey, she didn't fall apart! Wow, what did I really leave behind? (Of course, I KNOW that he will never allow himself to think this way, but it would make me feel better to kind of go Nah-Nah silently to myself).
