2, I am new to your sitch but your new thread title caught my eye. I know what you mean about not being sure if you're allowed to mention programs here... but I wanted to risk recommending the book Passionate Marriage by David schnarck (sp?). I feel like DB has excellent information on how to get to reconciliation, but almost no information about what to do once you get there. This book is incredible, it is seriously the deepest most profound book about relationships I have ever read--and I have read them ALL!! If I ever get to where you are right now he is the guy I would want to get counseled by. check it out.
Congratulations on all of these changes with your H--amazing. Also, I'm not sure how your H was with anniversaries in the past, but some guys I think just aren't as into anniversaries or think that one anniversary (example: march wedding anniversary) is all anyone needs.
