Thinker, I too am in limboland. We are the same age and look like our families are pretty similar.
How are you coping with the daily grind? I am up and down, but the longer it goes, the more good days come. Still have bad days, but they are coming less often and are less severe.
My W has not mentioned anything about the R since shortly after dropping the bomb. Typical to this kind of sitch, she acts like everything is great for the most part - just a friendly roomate.
I am GAL'ing, working on detaching, and exercising like crazy.
