WOW!... I should have participated on here months ago instead of just reading everyone elses sitch.
I'd love to be able to do it, but I don't think it's in me. I'm starting to wonder if what H wants is to see me get LIVID as you say and fight for him. In the meantime he has gotten closer and closer to OW. I kind of was that way when this all started but in a pathetic, persuing way. Mmmm...
I do have a question for you that I have been rolling around in my head. I leave on thursday to spend three weeks with D in Georgia. How should I act towards him up until I go? He knows I'm leaving but doesn't know where. What about when I'm gone, no contact? What's bothering me most right now is wondering if he brings OW into our house. EEK! If I tell him not to, he would probably do it for spite. And say it's his house also. Or should I not even think about it? I am hoping being gone so long that he will miss me. But, I don't see why he would since he has OW.
Thanks Puppy for any insight you may have from a guys pov!