Thanks for your input and support re Retrovaille. It is really encouraging. I am still reluctant to push too hard on my W because I don't want her to change her mind and run. I am, however, going to make sure that I take responsibility for scheduling, following up, etc.
I want this to happen. At the same time I am am unwilling to get excited simply due to the number of (self-generated) disappointments I have had in the past.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.