I think my love has been confused self-sacrifice/neediness.
Hey, I know that problem!
The trick is to make sure you include loving yourself in that mix. Love is the right place but you have to Love yourself first, and then you can love others. Otherwise, it is only self-sacrifice.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.