The bill for H's surgery came today. Boy, that was fast. $2,300 - and that's just for the doctors - another will arrive shortly for the hospital room, etc. H's health insurance ended May 31 - nice timing H.

Still no contact from him. His birthday is next Sunday. Not sure what to do about this one. Last year I sent him a text - "Happy Birthday - I miss you - first time in 22 years".

He sent a reply - "thanks for the text but wish you hadn't tried to make me feel guilty". Duly noted. This was before I had a full grasp of DB principals.

This year I'll probably ignore it? Not sure yet.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10