Told H boundaries had to be set and to not talk to 'her' around S. I said it does not set a good example for S. H shook his head, sighed, and said "Whatever!" Now he's acting like a 3 year old in a temper tantrum, making sure he does not "brush" me as we walked past each other, shutting doors forcefully etc...
Okay, my dear friends, did I make a mistake in what I said?
C'mon, you know the answer to that already, Ash. NO, you didn't make a mistake! Why, because he's acting like a petulant child???
Here's a great piece of advice I can give you:
STOP acting from a position of "Will this make him MAD? How will him being mad make ME feel?" -- and start operating from a position of "In every situation, DO THE RIGHT THING. Do the thing that God Himself would have me do if He were standing right here in front of me."
With THAT as your standard, is there really any question as to whether or not you did the right thing in insisting that your husband not discuss his adulterous girlfriend in front of your son???
