I think all you guys have the dynamic nailed down now - filing the D is big power play - the trump card. It is a crude "brute force" technique, not an act of love. Many of these WAS have waited for the conditions to be "ripe" before playing that card. You, SP are calling her bluff, poker faced and she is hesitating and prefers Limboland because the money imbalance and the daunting prospect of finding an 'OM' do indeed have an emotional effect. If you were the 'provider' or she has on OM you will hurt. But also listen to K - the best advice is from those who realize their mistakes. And many salutes to @coach and @Jody for superior Dbing technique.
