What if you started keeping a journal...left it laying around with evidence of your interest in someone other than your wife?
Feel free to smack that idea down...just didn't want to not put it out there in case it was something that might help!
Hugs!
actually I think that's a great idea. Well maybe not the making up of interest in someone else, but more an actual written journal of your feelings and thoughts. Including those you stated in one of your last posts about not staying around forever if CAW's fantasy with om doesn't end. She may not read this bb so a written journal may peak her interest and may just get her thinking with a more rational mind. In other words, if she thinks you'll always be there for her there is no reason for her to "wake up" and see her r with om for what it is.
