Okay, need to know what ya'll think of this. Next time H wants to have sex, I am going to tell him No - not until OW is out of his life. Is that the right thing to do?????
YES!!
H talks to OW within earshot of S?!? I think H should be told that S has boundaries that should be respected. What kind of man does he think he'll raise with that in-your-face behavior?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac