Well I haven't heard from him now in over a week. I am trying very hard to keep myself from calling him. Yesterday was a real fight since my son really wanted to see his father for Father's Day. But since he never called to make arrangements I just let it go and he never showed up so I guess he didn't care. I thought since his dad died only a year ago he might like to spend the day with his son to make it a little less painful remembering his own dad, but apparently not. Of course by not showing yesterday he is also now a day late on child support since he owes me on the third Sunday of every month - but I'm used to that and he hasn't been more than a week late since January although he's been really bad about it in the past. I WILL contact him if he doesn't pay me, that's not something I can afford to let go - but that and emergency situations are the only things I am going to contact him about from now on. Am I the only one who feels like marriages among 30-somethings and 40-somethings right now are just dissolving all over the place? Seems like everyone I talk to who is close to me in age is either divorcing or having really serious marital issues.
