Trying to detach from the madness!

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I imagine between the guilt and the making him face reality i am enemy #1!

I have been sitting on MIL vm for a few days and really don't like how she spoke to me. I sent her this email today:
MIL:
I got your message the other day but its been so busy here lately.

Just wanted to let you know while I do understand where you are coming from because exh is your son there are a lot of things you don't know. I am sure he tells you only bits and pieces of the truth and what you want to hear. For the record, it was confirmed that what I told you is absolutely true. Sadly, it was not gossip. I did tell him what I knew and told him if it was true how messed up it was and hoped that he would make better decisions for his life if not for himself, for his children.

It saddens me the choices he continues to make. I hate that this new information is getting around and people ask me about it. Thankfully baby is too young to process it. Yes, I am detaching the best I can but when you have a child together and so much contact its very difficult. My only concern now is baby. I will continue to pray for exh but cannot let him hurt us anymore.

On a better note, baby and I have really gotten back into the church family. Its been a saving grace for me. LIfe is going on...not how I expected, but its going.

Hope you are well and you home selling project is on its way!

I can't let her think that what she told me I am agreeing about. Her son ran us over, he is morally corrupt and she won't face it. I know this may not work either but she should know better than to believe the word of an A.