H, sleeping elsewhere for 6 months (traveling for weeks or months at a time) When in town, super hands on dad Has indicated that there is/are a person/persons... Spent first few months basically hounding me, had sex a number of times H is enamored with show biz, and all the trimmings Is extremely reactive to the idea of me hooking up with another man Has evolved from projecting all blame and guilt on me to taking some responsibility, referring to himself as "train-wreck, idiot" Has some MLC behaviors, or GAL (depends on how you look at it) Has some narcissistic tendencies (maybe clinical), I am clearly co-dependent (at least in this R, wasn't so prior too (at least I don't think)...but self esteem has suffered greatly (and I was cool being the "woman behind the man", now just the "woman left behind by the man"... H has enmeshed mom and pines for dad's attention (Hs dad left two families so far) Has the capability and capacity to be very present, loving and involved We are in serious debt Is cared for and enabled by super rich friends