I will check out these books. I should have gotten them earlier, but since we still live together and even still share a bed, it would be hard to read them without her knowing. I don't know how she would react if she knew I was reading those books, or even if she knew I posted here. I guess I could read them on meal break at work. It's worth a shot. What mistakes have I made? I at least tried to use advice from those here who have read the books.
Come on dude...add it to your list of "mysterious" things to do. Spend a little extra time in the can or go out and read...make it happen.