he has not been honest with her about anything. she gets bits and pieces of truths, only because time keeps passing and she realizes things. she has me tell her things and i only tell the truth.
he has spent the majority of his crisis with her telling me he wants to come home. and then he does on 2 separate occasions.
i know she is pushing for marriage. she is not a citizen here and wants to marry him, im convinced for citizenship.
she saw him as the american dream. and he was once. not anymore.
the money he(we) had is gone. he has no job. and she is seeing this now.
she has got to be realizing what i have told her is the truth. it must be filling in the questions and opened ended things in her head.
she has to see that he came home to me and opened the business with me.
i am not sure how he has covered up and kept this going as long as he has.
my friends are placing bets on when she will dump him. its only a matter of time they tell me, but who knows.
she will see that the divorce is no where near final (that is what she told me, that MY divorce is almost FINAL!) and she will see he truly has no money.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09