I'll try to find it, an article I read where the W dragged the H (or maybe was the other way around) and it worked out.
This is like crack for us DBers though...not sure if it is really the panacea it seems to be. If only, right?
Yep. I am actually reluctant to go until my W wants to. I kind of see as a trick you only get to try once, so pick your time and make it count.
Your wife has expressed interest, that alone is huge to me.
In my case, I feel like I haven't yet but will likely totally lose H to an A...as of now, I think he is still available. So, if I felt certain that he wouldn't be delving into another R (I can just see that he is needy that way), I would hold off. I hate feeling like it is the end all be all. There has to be something more profound than just the right timing...it just all feels so precarious for something that was supposed to be so reliable (M)...
S9 was just discussing M in the car and said that hopefully it can last a long time, "like 20 years or something"...niiiiice. Followed by, "daddy's so awesome. All of my friends wish they had my dad instead of theirs."
