Many couples go to Retrouvaille with one person wanting to save the marriage and one wanting out. The only expectation is that both participants are "willing and open"...the WAS does not have to want to work on the marriage just not go in closed minded (although I've read some interesting stories about that too).
Don't leave us hanging...what'd you read?
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.