Newbie - first post and ?s

[Faith2010]

I know you are probably looking at my signature line now and thinking "She's blowing smoke. She's D'd now so she was clueless and didn't do it right." You are right in one respect. I am D'd now. It's not what I wanted but it came to a point where that was necessary for a lot of reasons I won't go into. I am a DB success story though. I found the woman I used to be. I found the 'girl' I once was and had lost through nearly 20 years of conforming myself to what I thought my H wanted from me only to find in the end that it was never going to be enough.

Mishka - Just so you know I would not view you as 'blowing smoke.' From what you have written, I do think you are a success story and it's nice to hear from someone who didn't save their M but still came out a winner. When I get some time, I will read your thread(s).