well, it is the right thing to do if u truly feel that way. alot of people continue to have sex ( i am one of those) and alot of people cut it off when their spouses are having an affair.

every situation is different...

and, if u say it, u have to stick to it. because if u dont, he will never take u seriously...

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09