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[Sanderika]

Good for you getting all sexy for him. He likes what he is seeing for sure and besides it's fun!!! I would keep it up.
Ramp it up even!!

Are you sure the business has to close? Can you get some help from family and friends to keep it going a while longer and gain some more time for the creative juices to flow to come up with some sales and advertising ideas to drum up more business?

It took us (no kidding) 17 years building our company until it reached a point we knew we would make it no matter what.

My finances are rough. We are financially in a good place, but H filed for a D back in Oct. The courts have jurisdiction over our assets now. H cut off all funds to son and I last July because OW wanted him too. I have a part-time job that pays me take home $247 per week. It's not enough to support two people. My home is paid for. I cannot afford to stay here if we D. It will be too expensive for me to maintain alone. I love my home and so does son. He has only lived here. I do not want to have to leave it.

At this point in time, I am in limbo. I look for other jobs, there aren't really any here for me. I worked with H at our company until March of 2008 (25 years). OW forced H to force me out. She was very threatened by us working together. Little does she know. I still do things from here only I don't get paid. She wormed her way right into the company. She is writing all checks and doing whatever else she can convince H she is good for. Not one of H's brightest business decisions. He knows it now and there is only one way to get her out. That would require him to leave her and come home, MLC land still has it's grip on him.

We are just beginning to talk, it's a tough spot to be in for sure. We can keep talking, perhaps there is a way out. Come up with an idea, talk to people close to you. Someone might be willing to help out. Your son is 5, daycare is expensive. Can someone help out with watching him to ease your financial burden once you find some work? Your H sounds like a smart guy, finding a new job might not be that tough for him if he is motivated.

I don't know, just throwing out some thoughts....

Will stay in touch.....

Sanderika