Ok, now she just pis*sed me off. I wonder if she knows that her J is begging to be able to come and live with you.

And I wonder is she knows that her J is a mess.

Ok, sorry. I guess I have to write 1000 times:
Don't let a little girl get to you.

Hang in there, Sweetie. You did the right thing, just ignore her and keep moving forward.