Thanks for dropping by last night. I was needing people last night as you might have guessed.
Although I believe I had an angel on my side last night!
Take care and I wonder if one of JJ's posts to me might apply a bit here? It is pretty similiar to LL's dropping the rope.
It's a lot of "polarization" (in "psycho-therapist" terms), or what Michele calls the "see-saw effect". The more that one person does of something, the less the other has to do.
Whether or not that's really what they want to do. It seems like you both just get into the "habit", and run on "automatic pilot" with it.
The big question is, how do you tip this "see-saw" into the favor of making your relationship work? How do you change things so that you both have an equal share of the ride?
Of course he didn't post the answer along with this little tidbit. LOL
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
